in circles
*** i dreamt that i resigned na daw and was about to leave GASSO?!*** weird.
Anyways...
This post is about a good friend of mine back in college. J(F) and P(M) (ex-couple) were both good friends of mine, they met because of me and it is through that, that they became closer and soon became a couple. Its been 5 years since then. Both of them are troubled in a way, J although now happily dating, didnt really tell the true reason why she broke up with P. Her reason was the same as everyone else's - "growth" - the word we use when we cant sat what we really want to say.
J would text me every so often to ask about how P is doing.. and of course i wouldnt really know, so i would text him and ask him how he is doing... so between researching for materials and making presentations for the client, i my phone wouldnt stop beeping cause im texting 2 persons at the same time. Buti na lang i mastered the art "wrong sending" - i am careful when it comes to this stuff. i heard a lot of stories about couple's breaking up bec of this..
Honestly, P is the good type of guy. He agreed to whatever she proposed(the break-up) and believed in all this hoolabaloo... He was supporting her "growth" in finding what she really wanted about her future career, plans of going to abroad and work there. But "growth" was really leading to the arms of another guy. J broke up with him becuase of thsi main reason.. that there was another one. I couldn't even tell him this fact, i know that this will crush his heart so bad. i know how much he loves her.
Here are some of the verbatims she used:
"Can i just love them both. I still care about P, and i love D. I dont know hu im better with, but i love D."
"Nasakatan ko kasi P, 5 years kong kasama yun, wala siyang kaalam-alam, di ko kayang sabihin sa kanya"
-- all i can get from this, is that nakokonsyensya lang talaga siya, and that doesnt seem to prove anything. From her mismo na nanggaling na he loves D more and cares about P na lang.
Here are some of the verbatims he used:
"Kung kaya ko lang gawan ng paraan na kalimutan niya ako at di na niya ako isipin"
"Kamusta na siya? Balitaan mo ako.."
"Kung yun yung gusto niya, okay lang sa akin. Wala akong magagawa."
-- can you get any more martyr?! i want to wake you up and tell you that there is something wrong here.
I just hope this wont happen to me, or to any of my friends.
Anyways...
This post is about a good friend of mine back in college. J(F) and P(M) (ex-couple) were both good friends of mine, they met because of me and it is through that, that they became closer and soon became a couple. Its been 5 years since then. Both of them are troubled in a way, J although now happily dating, didnt really tell the true reason why she broke up with P. Her reason was the same as everyone else's - "growth" - the word we use when we cant sat what we really want to say.
J would text me every so often to ask about how P is doing.. and of course i wouldnt really know, so i would text him and ask him how he is doing... so between researching for materials and making presentations for the client, i my phone wouldnt stop beeping cause im texting 2 persons at the same time. Buti na lang i mastered the art "wrong sending" - i am careful when it comes to this stuff. i heard a lot of stories about couple's breaking up bec of this..
Honestly, P is the good type of guy. He agreed to whatever she proposed(the break-up) and believed in all this hoolabaloo... He was supporting her "growth" in finding what she really wanted about her future career, plans of going to abroad and work there. But "growth" was really leading to the arms of another guy. J broke up with him becuase of thsi main reason.. that there was another one. I couldn't even tell him this fact, i know that this will crush his heart so bad. i know how much he loves her.
Here are some of the verbatims she used:
"Can i just love them both. I still care about P, and i love D. I dont know hu im better with, but i love D."
"Nasakatan ko kasi P, 5 years kong kasama yun, wala siyang kaalam-alam, di ko kayang sabihin sa kanya"
-- all i can get from this, is that nakokonsyensya lang talaga siya, and that doesnt seem to prove anything. From her mismo na nanggaling na he loves D more and cares about P na lang.
Here are some of the verbatims he used:
"Kung kaya ko lang gawan ng paraan na kalimutan niya ako at di na niya ako isipin"
"Kamusta na siya? Balitaan mo ako.."
"Kung yun yung gusto niya, okay lang sa akin. Wala akong magagawa."
-- can you get any more martyr?! i want to wake you up and tell you that there is something wrong here.
I just hope this wont happen to me, or to any of my friends.
posted by anton at Friday, August 26, 2005
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