on being such an a-hole

Here's a picture from rom's despedida. she's the girl beside me. and she's the cause of all this trouble - but i'll stick by her side. :)

Well, sino ba tong asshole na to?! sino pa? eh di ako...

Why me? Here's why...

Here is how the story goes...Lately, rom (college friend) and i are exchanging emails about her relationship (because she's already in the states), which was okay - boring. haha! But what made the exchange of email exciting, was when i found out that she's crushing on this guy (igor)... Although it is not serious, fun lang pag-usapan and she is sharing it naman with me. According to her, she's looking forward to go to work becuase of this guy. well, that's how my friend described the feeling, and of course, i was happy for her at di na siya masyadong na-stress from having two jobs and di na siya super lungkot dun... that i started asking about the info's... of course, she would email me back about how she was doing, and what happened that day, and how the guy is into him, and that she is feeling a bit guilty (siyempre may boyfriend siya) and stuff like that.

---> being such an a**hole, i emailed her that it is okay. i mean it is just getting to know each other and it is not like they are getting married or something. i mean, whatever makes her happy at the moment is fine with me. I know that she is not happy in her current state kasi eh, so its much better to incorporate some fun naman. So siyempre as friends we talked about igor and his upcoming birthday, na-invite siya out -- dont get me wrong here, she was the first one to talk about the guy. it is just that i was the person she was talking about it with...well, the ironic part is,his boyfriend hinted that something was gonig on - (ep ep, they havent even dated, di natuloy yung mga labas nila ni igor ah!) so the boyfriend checked rom's email, and found out about the exchange of our conversation. Duh-huh! 1st lesson that we all can learn about this is that you should never give your password to a friend, even worst to your boy/girl friend... Next, the boyfriend, read all our mails, which was of course hurtful for him - that is why im such an asshole! hahaha. but in my defense... 1.) i said there that i like him (for her) - that it is just about having fun and dating around. it is not serious stuff.. but i do understand the feelings of the boyfriend, i know he was hurt. that is why im so sorry about it. its just that i am totally supporting my friend. its just a little thing, crush lang yun! so dont take it seriously, as if naman may mangyari talaga sa kanila. at the same time, im sorry for saying those words. it is not the right words to say to a friend who's trying to ask for help..the funny thing also is that they are suppose to get married this september, and the boyfriend, dahil nataranta because wala siyang makausap, talked to the elder sister - (after he can't reach the girl, the other sister and even me) imagine he tried to call me din!!! now the family knows about their plan to get married, and the family doesnt approve of it, my friend is way too young (21?!).. now they even like igor better!!!

how ironic can this story get?!
well, im just waiting to the next chapter or what will happen tomorrow...-- the point here is that i am such an asshole and i am sorry for the words i wrote. it was my mistake na konsintihin ang friend ko.. but for me, the important thing is that my friend is happy. as long as she is happy, i am happy for her. even if she gets married to the guy... as long as its her choice. It's fine with me. Okay lang, kahit naaawa ako sa boyfriend niya, i'm romina's friend first!